More Than Just Stitches: A Journey of Self-Discovery
If you've been following Two Little Kits for a while, you know that I believe stitching is more than just a hobby. It's a grounding practice, a way to slow down, and often, a way to process the world around us. Today, I'm sharing something that is much closer to my heart than just fabric and thread.
It's World Autism Awareness Day, and for me, this date carries a weight that has shifted over the years.
Seeing Through a New Lens
It started with my oldest daughter. I knew early on that she was "different," and when she was formally diagnosed as Autistic at four years old, I did what many parents do: I delved deep. I wanted to understand her world so I could support her in every way possible. But a funny thing happens when you start researching neurodivergence to help your child — you often start seeing your own experiences reflected back at you.
Patterns I had navigated my whole life —feelings of being "other," specific ways of processing the world, the need for the repetitive comfort of a needle and thread— suddenly started to click into place. It was a very unexpected lens to look through.
The [Lengthy!] Path to Clarity
I wanted to share today that I am currently in the middle of the long, sometimes overwhelming process of getting myself assessed for Autism.
To be honest, I'm still figuring out what this means for my own identity. But I felt a strong urge to share it here. Keeping it to myself felt like a disservice — not just to this wonderful community we've built together, but most importantly, to my daughter. I want her to see that seeking clarity and embracing who you are is a journey worth taking, no matter your age.
Often, for women, that "inkling" doesn't start with a doctor's appointment; it starts with a quiet realization, a lot of self-discovery, and —quite frequently— a child's diagnosis!
"Undiagnosed, But" and Other Neurodiverse Designs
This journey is exactly why I designed my newest pattern, "Undiagnosed, But." It's a gentle nod to that "pretty sure" feeling. With its pink brain, infinity symbol, and bright butterflies, it's meant to be a celebration of a vibrant, busy, and beautiful mind.
While this new piece feels particularly personal right now, it joins a collection of other patterns I've created over the years that celebrate neurodiversity and the importance of being kind to ourselves:
A colourful tribute to the way our brains can spark and fire in their own unique ways.
A little nod to "Spoon Theory" and managing our energy limits—something many of us in the community know all too well!
Based on the famous quote, a reminder that being different doesn't mean being "lesser."
My brand philosophy in a single hoop—letting go of perfectionism and embracing the beauty of the handmade.
A simple, encouraging reminder that who you are is exactly who you should be.
I originally shared a bit more about my personal update over on Instagram, which you can see here.
A Safe Space to Grow
There is so much more I want to say on this topic, but I'm taking it one stitch at a time. I don't always talk about my personal or family life in great detail, but knowing that Two Little Kits is a safe space to be vulnerable means the world to me.
Whether you have a formal diagnosis, you're "undiagnosed (but pretty sure)," or you're supporting a loved one on the spectrum, please know that learning who you are is always an okay thing to do. Thank you for being part of this journey with me, and for your ongoing support as I navigate these new chapters.
